During this time of the year, we celebrate so much. From out gratitude in Thanksgiving, we are now celebrating the Festival of Lights in Hanukah, and preparing for the joy of longer days in Winter Solstice and the birth of Christ in Christmas. It is at this time of year too, that we become so wrapped up in the complexities of our celebrations, that their original intent goes out of focus. ‘Tis a gift to be simple.

One of the ways that I’ve seen this happen is in the practice of giving gifts. Our culture defines gifts as things we buy at the mall or Walmart. We seek to find gifts at the lowest cost so that we can buy more and more. We have to spend the same amount on money on everyone, so that we don’t hazard offending anyone, and them thinking that we don’t appreciate them as much. ‘Tis a gift to be simple.

In all of our celebrations, one of the most important elements is the thought of being together with our loved ones. When we worry so much about the gifts we are giving, doesn’t that threaten our chances of being really close? Getting those warm feelings of togetherness that we yearn for all year?

My roommate and I are doing something different for gifts this year. We’ve agreed on three gifts:

1. A gift we buy that’s under $20.00;
2. A gift we make; and
3. A gift we bake.

I’m really looking forward to receive these gifts. My family too, is changing how we give gifts in the holiday season. For years we’ve hoped for a family vacation, and haven’t ever been able to realize this hope. Well this year we’ve agreed to make this vacation our gift to each other. Gathering in Florida in early January, we’re having our holiday celebration there, and without all of the complexities of giving gifts. More gifts I’m looking forward to receive. ‘Tis a gift to be simple.